发现你自己

　　TheonlyproblemunconsciouslyassumedbyallChinesephilosopherstobeofanyimportanceis:Howshallweenjoylife,andwhocanbestenjoylife?Noperfectionism,nostrainingaftertheunattainable,nopostulating(假定，要求)ofheunknowable;buttakingpoor,modal(模式的)humannatureasitis,howshallweorganizeourlifesothatwecanwokepeacefully,endurenoblyandlivehappily?

　　Whoarewe?Thatisfirstquestion.Itisaquestionalmostimpossibletoanswer.Butweallagreewiththebusyselfoccupiedinourdailyactivitiesisnotquitetherealself.Wearequitesurewehavelostsomethinginthemerepursuitofliving.Whenwewatchapersonrunningaboutlookingforsomethinginafield,thewisemancansetapuzzleforallthespectatortosolve:whathasthatpersonlost?Someonethinksisawatch;anotherthinksitisadiamondbrooch;andotherswillessayotherguesses.Afteralltheguesseshavefailed,thewisemanwhoreallydoesn'tknowwhatthepersonisseekingafter,tellsthecompany:"I'lltellyou.Hehaslostsomebreath."Andnoonecandenythatheisright.Soweoftenforgetourtrueselfinthepursuitofliving,likeabirdforgettingitsowndangerinpursuitofamantis(螳螂)whichagainforgetsitsowndangerinpursuitofanother.

　　真正的朋友会紧紧相随

　　"Afriendwalkinwhentherestoftheworldwalksout."

　　Sometimesinlife,

　　Youfindaspecialfriend;

　　Someonewhochangesyourlifejustbybeingpartofit.

　　Someonewhomakesyoulaughuntilyoucan'tstop;

　　Someonewhomakesyoubelievethattherereallyisgoodintheworld.

　　Someonewhoconvincesyouthattherereallyisanunlockeddoorjustwaitingforyoutoopenit.

　　ThisisForeverFriendship.

　　whenyou'redown,

　　andtheworldseemsdarkandempty,

　　Yourforeverfriendliftsyouupinspiritsandmakesthatdarkandemptyworldsuddenlyseembrightandfull.

　　Yourforeverfriendgetsyouthroughthehardtimes,thesadtimes,andtheconfusedtimes.

　　Ifyouturnandwalkaway,

　　Yourforeverfriendfollows,

　　Ifyouloseyouway,

　　Yourforeverfriendguidesyouandcheersyouon.

　　Yourforeverfriendholdsyourhandandtellsyouthateverythingisgoingtobeokay.